A memoir by Jerene Dildine

She Comes On Top

Sex, power, shame, survival—and the audacity to get the last word.

Jerene Dildine looking over her sunglasses from the open door of a car, wearing a vivid sequined outfit

Writer · Comedian · Truth-teller

For anyone who was told to keep quiet

She thought she was hiding a secret. Then the secret started following her.

Before she was a writer and comedian, Jerene Dildine was a Spanish teacher who stepped into sex work—and straight into a story she never expected to survive, much less tell. When a client became a stalker, private choices collided with public shame, institutional indifference, and a courtroom. Jerene fought back. A jury heard her. She won. She Comes On Top is a darkly funny memoir about desire, fear, reinvention, and the unruly act of believing yourself.

A woman can be terrified and still be the bravest person in the room.

Jerene writing in a notebook in a colorful, neon-lit room

The writer at work.

About the author

Jerene
Dildine

Jerene is a Denver-based writer, comedian, recovering Spanish teacher, and professional overthinker. Her work lives where shame, sex, power, and humor collide—usually wearing good shoes.

She is writing She Comes On Top, a memoir about the strange things survival asks of us, the stories we are warned not to tell, and what happens when a woman decides to tell hers anyway.

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